Handed a Mop
You were taught to keep the peace by cutting pieces off yourself. Stop volunteering. Some people will name your refusal disrespect because your exhaustion made their life easier.
Your urge to fix the mood
is a survival job you were hired into as a kid
with no interview, no pay, no time off the clock.
You were handed a mop that reeks of bleach and old apologies,
and told to smile like it’s normal.
Wring the mop out, walk away, leave it in the bucket.
The people who benefit from your self-erasure
will call it attitude.Let them.
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